Since you’ve been gone, my dad died. He had cancer and it only took a few months for the best man I’ve ever known to waste away and go home.
And he made jokes almost every time I visited him.
Since you’ve been gone, I’ve watched Gilmore Girls constantly. I stop at the end of season 5, but that’s still 109 episodes that I’ve seen 6 times each.
Too much, I know.
Since you’ve been gone, I am not in daily pain. My sister forced me to change my health, and it changed my whole life. I am social now. I can eat now. I have bad days, but those days are just a part of my life, instead of the whole.
I might even join a rock climbing gym. Ha.
Since you’ve been gone, I started making films again. I swear, I’m in a contest right now. I just wish PJ was still here to see my name on some credits again.
Since you’ve been gone, I still recycle. Thanks for teaching me that.
Since you’ve been gone, I have no idea what is true in politics or the environment or most various info stored in my brain. That’s the problem with lying about the important things, suddenly you saying the sky is blue is called into question.
Since you’ve been gone, I discovered some beautiful people. People who sacrificed time, money and space to love on me. You were wrong, real love does make sacrifices.
When you truly love someone, you are willing to make them laugh even as you are dying.
Since you’ve been gone, my dog ran away. Poor baby just wanted her mom back. I’m sorry PJ, she missed you too much.
Since you’ve been gone, I bought my dream car, caught it on fire, had it repaired, and am now buzzing around again like I always dreamed.
Since you’ve been gone, my bro and his wife had a baby. And his name is Zwingli. I’m not kidding.
Since you’ve been gone, a lot of friends left too. Sometimes people aren’t meant to stay.
Since you’ve been gone, I lived on my own for a year and never once starved or missed a rent payment or died. Isn’t that cool? I sure think so, especially the starving part.
Since you’ve been gone, I discovered that I’m broken. That I mess up and I’m messed up. But that I am also valuable and loved.
Being messed up and messing up is ok. It’s normal.
Since you’ve been gone, I’ve spent so much more time with my family. They’re really fun people. They make me laugh. They build me up.
And even though I do most of the time, they don’t consider me a great disappointment.
In fact, my daily life has gotten exponentially better since you’ve been gone.
So you were right about one thing.