Some people draw energy from being around other people. And some people draw energy from being by themselves.
These people don’t hate people. No, they just hate to be forced into parties and large groups and social events on a regular basis. It drains the life out of them.
Let’s repeat that, please. Attending big social events regularly drains ALL LIFE from people the public calls INTROVERTS.
Some artists…maybe a lot of artists…are introverts. Why? They spend a lot of time thinking and creating art from their thoughts, while alone. Writers and film editors tend to be introverts. Actors, dancers, painters….Lots of people.
The reason I’m mentioning this is because it seems like in Western culture that there’s some kind of misconception that introverts are a tiny part of the populace. Like they are some kind of rare blood disorder or albino bat. Ya’ll, introverts run half the world. They’re not new or extraordinary or unique or unusual.
Don’t freak out when you meet one or when someone tells you they don’t like parties. Don’t force them to hang out with people more often, because they won’t like it or forget it.
But mainly…Please keep asking him or her to hang out. Please keep him or her in mind when you need someone to talk to or help you move. Hold on to your introverted friend–it’s easy to be ignored when you dislike large groups.
Introverts aren’t special. I repeat, introverts aren’t this magical brand of human being. They are just human. Just as lovable or unlovable as an extrovert. They just need a different schedule sometimes.
I know this is a weird post. I know I normally write about movies and technology and Kansas City. I just found this subject very important this past week, since I am an extremely introverted person. I didn’t know how introverted until the last few weeks.
We exist. Be aware.